the art of love.
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Sunday, May 9, 2010
2:35 AM
Still learning.
Things are really starting to look up for me. Everything is falling into place perfectly, just the way I hoped it would be. For one, I learnt that Thailand is on the safe-to-travel side. Secondly, a promise would soon be fulfilled (:
Last Friday, bf ORD-ed! Yes, after enduring 22 months of a better-version-of-hell, he finally passed out, elated. ORD also meant something special to me.
2 years ago, Mish had promised me, 'If we could enter and leave this 22 months together, while still staying strong as a couple throughout, I would marry you. Cause it just shows the extent to which we would go to keep our love from dying.'
I couldn't agree more. Going through NS is a real test of love. We've heard of broken hearts and broken dreams. We've heard of girls leaving their bfs, in search of attention, better treatment and happy endings. We've heard of how they abused the word 'deprieve' to justify their leaving. And of course, we've seen many relationships ending as soon as it has just begun. I am not proclaiming myself as the 'PERFECT GIRLFRIEND' here. I am not perfect, and I admit to all of the mistakes I made to him. But what I'm saying here is that it takes two hands to clap. It takes 2 people to make a relationship work. This is not my achievement, THIS IS OUR ACHIEVEMENT.
I guess I am quite excited at the thought of getting married to the one man I truly, actually, sincerely love. It has only been 2 ++ years, but I'm absolutely certain YOU ARE THE ONE FOR ME. I just know (: I love you.
PS: Thailand in 5 days time!